All would be fine, but he has a close relationship with his parents - he does not seem to listen to them, but he listens. And my mother sings her song all the time: what an ex is good, smart. But is it my fault that my parents divorced and live far away from me, or that this one earns well and can make expensive gifts for her, and I am a black laborer, but I do what I love.

Her presence on the project is explained by the fact that she has a high rating, and this is very popular with those who host the show. Young, but already wounded. Doesn't trust men. Rather bad. And even the environment, sorry teasing. I want to tell you that real female beauty has nothing to do with what many media are trying to prove to us. There are many examples of successful photographs and one of them relates to this. It's hard to disagree here and the beautiful views always give us their confirmation. We must remember that only weight loss in the shortest extreme time will save you. Don't make a standard situation out of emptiness. I challenge you to promises. We simply have to win in this complex world. We have no other choice but to achieve our lofty plans and get the coveted rating. Of course, try to talk to the girl's mother on this topic, but somehow gently and carefully, because getting into the upbringing of other people's children is also not entirely correct. And since then, as if I got accustomed to this role, and so in life for almost 10 years. Now I'm trying to remember what went wrong from what moment? And he already finds a social circle. And I do not coincide with such mummies. Well, they do not like to be friends with unmarried in most cases. In short, what to do at 32? At work alone, to be honest. Sister with children constantly, then school, then circles, then birthdays constantly gets acquainted with different mothers. So the two closest friends got married in other cities. I'm shorter than a loner. Where can I find girlfriends? Normal? At 32? How to find at least girlfriends? Where can I find a husband? What should I do? There is no family, no boyfriend, no loved one (there was one and he passed it on and deceived), there are good friends, but they all parted, got married and it worked out. And in short, I'm 32 single and don't date anyone. I go to work and home. I have a sister who is a year older. We were always with her. And the guys always paid more attention to me, but I didn't like anyone and I myself am passive. She is also pretty but a little with sharp features. I'm nicer. But she also had fans. And it never happened to beat off the guys from each other. As a result, she met a guy (now her husband) and was apparently afraid to show me something. It turned out that she met him, went for a walk with his family, with his sisters and never took me, and I thought, well, ok, and somehow it was a shame that it was as if I was a stranger. That is, he and his family are already used to the fact that I don't really mean anything to her. And it is not necessary to call and invite me somewhere. But when my help is needed, they exploit me to the fullest. I always help with children, trusts only me, always help me with money. Moreover, the former at one time acted as a guarantor for the loan from my boyfriend, and now she demands that she be relieved of the financial burden and find another guarantor. How easy is it? And his mother supported her - is that okay? The question is simple: what to do to make them quarrel. I don't want this goat to get into my family.

My mother took me in, gave me education and housing. I'm glad. And for this I have to fill her emptiness in life. Meet a married man, he will never leave his family.

1 ru

I do not know affection, recognition, respect, I was not taught hygiene. I had to approach dad with lessons and stand at the table for an hour and a half, wait until he completes the quest in the game, only then he will help.

2 pt

Animal slaughter in front of my eyes. Their parents did not feed them. And I thought it was the norm. I didn't know another life. He yelled at me so that my ears rang, and for some time I did not hear anything.

Daten 5 - NL

Mother always lies. Somehow she promised to buy me a present, due to the fact that I was going to weed the whole garden anyway. I received it in a week (I was 10) so they told me - I did not promise you anything.

Treffit 1 - FI

I constantly hear this hump to me. And I'm not asking for anything. I say live for yourself. I do not need it. I did not ask for this life, I did not ask to give birth. I moved to another city, otherwise I would have died there.

Treffit 2 - FI

I learned hygiene, I learned to love and respect myself. So far, I'm not good at it, but I'm trying very hard. I remember how I cried and felt such pain. And she came up to me and said, well, what are you whining about?

Treffit 3 - FI

And I don’t want to, I like my muscles and strength. But I can’t concentrate on the pleasure of sports in the gym, I constantly think about how others laugh at me. And no attempts to explain to themselves what people should think about themselves do not help.

Treffit 4 - FI

I read such reviews on the net, when girls write, how they personally laughed and humiliated fat people who came to the gym. And that made me even more insecure. I can move, and I move well, I can perform many movements, but when I enter the gym, I bend almost twice, as if they are hitting me on my stomach, which now after the illness has remained the only problematic place, and I give my best ten percent perhaps.

Dejta 1 - SV

The coach thinks that everything hurts me, that I can’t move, because of this, they treat me like a cripple. I can physically, but mentally I can't. It is worth starting to run, as thoughts immediately into the fact that everything is shaking with me, that I am a laughingstock, that everyone is laughing and humiliating me in my head. Again, the body suffers from a lack of fizuhi. Vicious circle. Late at night in the dark at the stadium, I calmly give out different steps on the horizontal bars, in my full body.

Dejta 2 - SV

I set up a room for myself at home. I can do it when I have free time. And in the hall the bench is occupied, then they stand above the soul. But most of all the women are distracting. In leggings. Don't focus.

Dejta 3 - SV

I was strong from birth and was bullied for my appearance by both my parents and school. And then from the side of men, and supposedly girlfriends. And now I have the feeling that other people in the hall consider themselves better than me, some kind of higher caste, laugh behind my back, talk and humiliate me.

Dejta 4 - SV

After a long illness I went to the sports section. I have a lot of weight, but even after reducing it, I will never be thin, I was born like that. And in the light of day in the hall - I can not. Has anyone else experienced a similar issue - how did you overcome it?

Dejta 5 - SV

But absolutely when they see you for the third time, they will lose all interest in you. and in the fourth they will already treat you - as if you have always been here. so if it seems to you that they are laughing at you, tell yourself "this chick sees me for the 15th time. she really doesn't care. I invented all my fears myself.

היכרויות 1 - IZ

Yes, everyone cares about you. Are you the only fat one there? Go to the pool - hippos are trained there to reduce the load on the legs and everyone is the same as you and more. And you need to realize that people really don't care. Of course, when they see it for the first time, they wash the bones, maybe the second time too.

אתר מפגש 2 - IZ

Probably, I did not describe clearly enough - I go to the wrestling section. I can't contact anyone. Although I try not to communicate closely, so as not to hear condescension and self-pity. Only on business. I don’t go to the gym to lose weight, I like the sport itself. Once I enjoyed it, but now I can’t, everything is shaking already on the way to the hall.

You just put up with the fact that you are considered a laughing stock, then you will not think about what impression you make. It's normal for fat people to accept full. Let others think what they want about you, no need to control other people's thoughts.

Until you love yourself so much and it will seem that they are laughing at you, you will notice someone else's gaze on yourself. When I started going to the gym, they also looked askance at me, but I went there for myself and watched only myself, counted approaches, listened to music, a stream of thoughts about work and household chores went through my head.

In the future, I walked around the gym all sweaty, all my armpits and ass were wet, no one even looked at me, because they saw that I was working on myself, and they could only gossip with their friends and run on the tracks for 15 minutes a day. Love yourself, it's psychological.

Start exercising at home, buy a pair of dumbbells, weight loss depends 70 percent on nutrition, on the ratio of cbju, on water intake. If you like the sport itself, then focus on it, not on gossip. And if you can't. Why does everyone sincerely believe that weight loss is hiding in the gym?

Only then sports are added to sip the body and to create the necessary forms. Buy a home workout program and learn in a complex how to use certain muscles, and then you will feel comfortable in the gym!

I don't know why everyone thinks so. As for me, I wrote above that I do not go for weight loss. You must have missed this point. In any case, thanks for your willingness to help. The author, and sign up for group classes for some thread. You will see that women of completely different builds will come there. In fact, each will be fixated on their own terrible "flaws".

Now I will also think about the fact that the men in the hall are not studying wrestling techniques, but are distracted by my huge one. It got even worse, to be honest. That's why I like old little halls. Without women. But there are almost no such rooms left.

I replied in the comment above. But where I go, there are no big girls, all small ones. And before that I was in other sections - there is also no my weight category, I had to fight with the men.

Now I look at all those little girls, girls, women, and the thoughts in my head - these are definitely looking at me and rejoicing, "I'm not like that," they regret it in the face, but laugh behind the eyes. We don’t have wrestling sections in the city, so that there are big girls.

The author, I have been going to the gym for many years, and when I see fat people, I always think that's a good fellow. Don't cycle. In a group photo, a person always looks at himself, I heard this phrase somewhere, so it is.

Once upon a time, when for the first time I went only to the gym near the house, I also had a complex. Although there were never any problems with weight, I just wanted to pump up. But it seemed to me that people were all looking at me, I was always looking askance at others, at mirrors, at jocks. The author, this is me to the fact that I didn’t shake anything, I even wound myself up.

So it's all in your head for sure. Well, you are complete, so what? This is not a reason to refuse classes because of stupid complexes. For myself, I solved the problem this way - especially at first I found a place in the gym to focus on myself. Freer, at the mirror for example. I always ran with music. Exercises can also be done with your player and headphones.

Focus on yourself. You are not the only one with complexes. Good luck to you! Everything will work out for you! As for the comments of some people about the fact that “you can equip a gym at home”, well, that’s it ... The gym helped me to become more confident, overcome my complexes (and not only because I became more athletic), communicate more confidently with people.

Plus, the atmosphere in the gym is motivating, now you are plump, but you will work out and look at yourself in the mirror just as confidently as sports girls and guys who supposedly look at you disapprovingly. Do not give up.

Even though I love the gym, after long pauses and when I get better, I also feel insecure every time. So what, but I'm working on myself. It's not a shame to be fat and go to the gym, it's a shame not to go there because of your weaknesses. I wish you good luck, I just understand you well.

The forum's opinion is interesting - let's imagine that in the future a certain dictator will seize power first in his country and then in all countries, unite humanity, issue laws where people, relying on diligence and planetary resources under the guaranteed protection of the civilization, can easily achieve a safe and comfortable life.

Science and technology are developing, people are getting richer and more enlightened, large-scale space exploration begins, but there is one thing - to create this ideal civilization, the ruler (the same dictator) has reserved the legal right to be above the laws.

They do not apply to this, imagine, you are an ordinary person, due to the reforms of the ruler, you get rich easily, develop yourself, enjoy life, and suddenly you find that an opposition has appeared that wants to kill the reformer because of his unlimited power. Would you join the opposition or not? And how do you think the situation would develop further? Thanks for listening!

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  • twitter - And then he told us it was better to stop talking, two months later he came back and it all repeats again, but only he ever wrote "maybe I want a relationship with you".

  • instagram - Because i tried to find out why he came back, again he wrote for the first two days and then stopped completely, how can that be understood?

We have been friends for a very long time, she always considered me the closest friend, and she is generally the only one for me (I'm not very sociable). She lives in another country, she got married and gave birth to children 5 years ago, although I am childless, although I am married (I don’t want my own children). And we regularly, on average once a week, kept in touch by phone or text. In November, she advised her to watch a movie about a maniac. She didn’t even congratulate me on the New Year, it’s very strange, considering that this is her favorite holiday and always congratulates me. Do you think it is really possible to break off relations because of the recommendation of the film?

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